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Saying Goodbye to Elbee

Yesterday afternoon saw the close of the chapter on Elbee’s time with us, a period just short of 12 years. Although we’ve been through this once before, I’d blocked out just how devastating it is to say goodbye to a beloved companion. Surely no animal ever gave more love than Elbee. She has her grip securely locked on my heart. She spent her last hours in my lap while Moe and I petted and talked to her.

Sadly, she’d had another seizure about an hour before we got there, so she was somewhat sedated on valium and was really only a shadow of her real self. In some ways that did make the decision easier. If she’d been perky and alert I would have been even more distressed – though that is hard to imagine.

Elbee had been with the Veterinary Medical Specialists in critical care for the past couple of days while we determined that her kidneys were shutting down, causing severe electrolyte imbalances which spurred repeated seizures. The VMS folks were wonderful, allowing us private time to visit. Due to her sedation, I wasn’t sure if she knew where she was, then she kissed my hand. She did.

Because she’s been so ill, her diet has been restricted. As a special treat we brought fresh cooked hamburger. She dove into the bowl in true Elbee fashion and gobbled it down.

Finishing with a bit of peanut butter, another long-time favorite.

Though she was wobbly on her feet, we let her have a little walk outside. The afternoon light was low, bringing out her beautiful coat colors.

Even as a senior dog, she kept her luxurious coat and gorgeous red head to the end.

Resting in my lap, with the two people who loved her best, she said Goodbye.

I found this photo of a rainbow over “Denali” Highway in Alaska. I like to think that it looks something like Elbee’s trip over Rainbow Bridge. She would like that it is Denali’s Highway. In her younger years Elbee was Denali’s constant playmate, raising Denali from a puppy and showing her the ropes.

Over the years Elbee has communicated with me. I often knew what she was thinking and I would catch her studying me intently seemingly to discern my thoughts. Once in awhile I would actually get a very succinct flash of words being spoken from her. She didn’t say a lot, but when she did her message was always to-the-point.

This morning, as I was deep in grief and trying to tell her how much more I wished I could have done for her I got this message, “My life was perfect. I was happy.”

Elbee, you were perfect and you made us very happy. We will always love you. Travel well and in peace. Trust in Bart to guide you.

Farewell to you sweet Elbee.

Bridgecreeks Little Bit, CGC (Elbee)

January 12, 1998 – Dec. 29, 2010

The Most Beautiful Little Pembroke in the World

16 Responses

  1. There are no words. Hugs to you, Kathy and Moe.

  2. …awww, i had a pembroke when i was a kid.
    we went skating together, winc was his name, very proper dogsbody he was, loyal butler, friend,
    fell through the thaw, grampa and i laid out planks to where he was scrabbling to get back on ice=
    cetl(Nawa)=oneness of water=ce(N)=one,
    i brought him to shore from the millpond.
    had a neufy too, zanzibar(barry).
    dog=d/toc/g(letra)=toca(N)=sow/seed=tocar(sp)=
    touch. a touching animal who never fails to
    remind us who our friends really are, and how
    much better bred we would be if mom and dad
    had met in a kennel on their respective leashes!

  3. My heart is breaking for you guys. I am SO very sorry and know the pain you feel. Know that we are thinking of you and sending you hugs. We wish you peace.

  4. I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you. You obviously gave Elbee a wonderful life – she was lucky to have you looking out for her.

  5. I have tears in my eyes after reading this. Elbee was well-loved, and loved you so much as well. Every post I ever read about Elbee was so caring and proud that it was easy to fall in love with a dog I’ve never even met.

    My heart goes out to all of you. Rest well, Elbee.

  6. I am so sad for you. I have been there with my first Cardi, Dylan, and know the horrible pain. Try to take comfort in knowing you gave her a wonderful life.

  7. I’m so sorry. Even when we know it is time, it is still so hard to send them on without us.

  8. Tears for you. I understand.

  9. Our hearts go out to You, Moe, Sage, and Denali. It is always hard to let go but that little bit has far greater memories than the last. Give Sage and Denali hugs and kisses and if you need anything we will always be there.

  10. Kathy,

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know Elbee is so special to you and will live on in your heart.

  11. I’m so sorry Kathy. They’re all special in their own way but having heard Embee’s story, how she came into your life, I know this was very hard. Hugs to you, you very special woman.

  12. I am so sorry. Elbee was a lucky girl to have had such a great life with you. Peace.

  13. We are so sorry to hear of Elbee going to the Rainbow Bridge. Our thoughts and hearts are with you and Spirit sends an aroooo.

  14. Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss. What a lucky dog and lucky people.

  15. Kathy,
    What a heartbreak! I am so sorry to read the sad news about lovely Elbee. You and your family will be in my thoughts during this sad time. Remember that there is a happy memory behind every tear you shed.
    -Stephanie (adoptive mom of of Roxie, the former “Patsy”)

  16. Kathy,
    I just caught up with your new website and read about Elbee. I’m so sorry. Tears are streaming down my face as I write this. Each time one of our dogs has died, I always think I can never get another dog. It is so painful. Our dogs bring us so much joy and it wouldn’t be a life without them! We will keep you in our thoughts.
    John and Diane (adoptive mom of Dylan, formerly known as Willie)

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